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Friday, August 14, 2009

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I'm writting this sepcially for one of my friend, a great good friend.

I knew him since I was 18, which is 8 years ago.
He is a very aggresive type...aggresive in all things except studies.
We get close together in second semester...Since then, he will come and find us in the evening with his father's car.
Of course, his excuse to his parents was, to do assignments =)
As a student who stay in the hostel, I do not have any transport and he is our driver who fetch us here and there.
Sometimes, he used his motorcycle to fetch me for class.
My result has dropped from GPA 3.6 in the first semester to 2.9 in the second semester. Reason being is because we used to go for games and bowling in midlands park. By getting influence by another friend of mine, we have blamed him for fetching us here and there.. bad huh?

Came into the third semester and we have stopped all those gaming things in midlands park. Third semester's workload is not that heavy as it only contained 2 subjects. We used to chit chat in the study room and at times, we played 'Chor Dai Dee' at the corridoor outside of the study room.

Yes, we were very playful at that time, which they will come to my house for card game or heart attack game which propose by him.. as he is our CEO (Chief Entertainment Officer) at that time.

Until he has a admire, he slowly leave the gang, which he will pay more attention on that girl. Ko, remember J? Hahaha...

He failed to win the girl's heart and he came back to the team. Sometimes, Sam will talk bad of him. But, who is perfect in this world? But I admit that I got myself involve in the topic.. yes, i'm so so bad.

He used to call me during weekend when I went back to Butterworth house, using his father's cell phone. Sometimes, I'll call him by using my dad's cell phone, too =P
We can talk whatever topic we want. He gave me courage, confident, advice... just like a big brother of mine. All the scene is clearly in my mind...

Eventually, we have finished our diploma studies and have to go over to KL to continue our degree and advanced diploma. His parents might not want him to stay with us as he is suffering for some sickness... This is the reason why we did not rent the same house. At that time when we pay for the deposit, he still could not make the decision. But at last, he rent a house just next to my block.

A gang of 7 person, we eat together, play together, go to class together. He was so eagerly to get a girl friend at that time =P
We used to have a celebration at Telephone Steamboat after our examination. This is the most luxury dinner we had at that time. He used to play game till midnight and caused his sickness to 'visit' him again. The new PC, pentium IV at that time, could not even stand the heat until he took of the casing in order to put a table fan to cool down the processor. Ai Ling, used to complain the expensive electricity bill as he always non stop playing game with PC and iron his pyjamas =)

After he tag along with BE, I had a feeling of being left behind. Yes, because he told us before he had a girl friend, that he is the 'Zhong Sek Heng Yao' type. Until one day, he said to me that, he will not leave me alone. Which I felt so warm in the heart.

Year passed, we have all graduated and came into the working life. Seldom we gather together. I have forgotten since when we planned to have at least one time gathering in a month. We planned for travel, this and that...

This morning, he asked me whether to join him for Christmas celebration at Singapore. Yes, I wanted to go and felt extremely excited and happy. The happiness just last for 3 minutes until I received his next reply. He said that the plan is partly for his research to work there. He is planning for the migration after he works there for certain time. I felt like, huhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh..................... a leak gas balloon... so so heavy in the heart. Yes, Singapore is not far from Malaysia. But that feeling is like, he is leaving us to stay in another far far far place. Bad feeling, bad mood. Anyway, I knew that he is making this decision in order to provide his future family a good living condition. No doubt, he is a responsible man. Whatever he planned, I'll fully support him, as he used to support me.

Ko, no matter how far you plan to go (UK, US, or other planet), you'll always so close with me.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Truly great friends are hard to find, difficult to leave and impossible to forget. He is a real true friend of your's.

As Tim McGraw "We all take different paths in life, but no matter where we go, we take a little of each other everywhere."

Life goes on but the friendship will never end...

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