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Thursday, July 15, 2010

Friend

When we started to have friends? In my memory, my first friend is the one who lived at the same block with me when I were small, around 4-5years old.

As life goes on, we met diffrent people. We have different stages of friend, and different types of friend. Some of them, is like, I know who they are and they know who I am. We are not close, is a hi and bye friend. Some of them are intimate type. We share our happiness, sadness, being crazy for handsome boy, A-Z together. I have had this friends before in secondary school. Since when I am so far away from them? Even I tried to pull the distance closer, but it seems so far.

When I stepped into my college life, I have another group of friend. We hang out together, we study together, we play together... Till now we still attach to each other and have at least one gathering per month.

The next stage of my life is when I graduated from college and started to work. I have one close friend in my first job. We have lost contact since I left the company after my eleven months service.

I could say that the most precious thing of entering this current company is the friendship gained. From the first day when I report to work, I knew one friend. She's nice, capable, cute. The only thing I can't stand is when she complains. After all, she is a nice person. We are reporting to the same manager. Thus, we have to deal with each other very frequent. There was a time we worked together till 11.30pm.

Fate and same charateristic - crazy + like to make fun, pull 6 of us together after the second dinner night in year 2007. Before we were so close, we actually have 1 or 2 times of outing fuction, like karaoke and steamboat but we do not have lunch together. After that night, we joinned together, making fun, talking nonsense, gossip and etc everyday. I do not know whether others will felt that our laughter is ear pricking or not. But, I enjoy the moment. This is one of my two reasons why I am still here. Honey moon time will not last. 6 of us, CMM is the first to leave, then Ah Mei, Ah Ling is the next.

The leave of CMM... perhaps is good for her. With the inflation, she should go out and get a better income's job. She has to... She used to make everyone of us vomit blood with laughter. We do not know whether knowing her is good or bad. At the good aspect, you will never know such a person in your life. At the bad aspect, you really feel like killing her whenever she opens her mouth.

Ah Mei, the one that enlightened me the most, though she is younger than me for one year. God provides her wisdom. She can analyze things so well. But she dislike decision making. Decision making to her is like standing at the crossroad and is so difficult to decide which direction to go. Things make me to get mad of her is, she'll never punctual... Hehehe... Sometimes very hard to get her. Nobody will pick up the call even you call her... We have had misunderstanding. But I know God will bless our friendship.

Ah Ling, she's our joker. We never treat her as our entertainment officer, but when she is there, our laughter is always there. Although she makes a lot of jokes and people will thought that she is a happy go lucky person. But she is the one that cries very easily. She heart so softer than every other things. Others might feel that she is proud but she is really nice to be with if you really know her.

There are too many memories... I hope that my brain is good enough to remember all the good one and to forget the bad one. I hope that I won't get amnesia. If I really get it, I'll also remember all the friends that I had. I always tell myself that, friend is not for quantity, but is quality. God has provide me too many good things, and one of it is my precious good friends! Ever told CMM that, I have gave up to have best friend because of being hurt. But their warm friendship has burn my heart. I love them, and I really do! I believe that we are very close even we are apart from each other.

2 comments:

Crabby said...

U really good to express in words. Gambatte for our friendship ya... kiss kiss

chooie said...

ditto

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